I understand more than the ancients, because I keep thy precepts. Psalms 119:100
Understanding “Right understanding consists in the perception of the visible or probably agreement or disagreement of ideas. Intelligence between two or more persons.” This is not always an easy task. Have you ever noticed when putting something together how simple they try to make it? You first open up the box and there are many pieces, screws, nuts and bolts and they are different sizes from ¼ inch ⅜ inch ½ inch all kinds of washers plastics parts and more. 🧐🤓you are not a rocket scientist, how in the world am I going to get this together right? Never fear the directions, have it all in detail with pictures and words. Don’t know the difference between a ½ inch and a ¼ inch ? No problem just hold the screw or bolt up to the picture and look, they match in size. Oh but everything isn’t that simple. I love my wife dearly and there isn’t anything I would not do for her but I don’t always understand. I don’t know if you have noticed but men and women are a bit different and I mean more than just body parts. God made Adam first and after that He must have said this poor guy needs help. Why would I say that?
Genesis 2:18 (KJV) And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. So God made Eve to help Adam out. Many times as much as I love my wife I don’t always understand her and that is part of God’s plan; don’t ask me why because I don’t really know. As one writer wrote, women speak a different language and I would agree. Now I have made it part of my life to understand and I have come a long way but I am yet to be fluent. Did you know that as a man I am to love my wife and not only am I to love her I’m told how I am to love her.
Ephesians 5:25 (KJV) Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it;
What did Christ do for the Church? Gave Himself!
Ephesians 5:28 (KJV) So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.
That’s fairly simple: you love her, she will love you back, that's God's plan and purpose. You know what? Without my wife in my life I would be a real mess because she is my help meet and the way I feel is what Jimmy Stewart said in the movie “It’s a wonderful life.” “What is it you want, Mary? What do you want? You want the moon? Just say the word and I'll throw a lasso around it and pull it down.” For me it is not happy wife happy life. Oh no it’s happy wife the love of my life and that makes me happy. My wife loves the beach. I could care less if I ever saw the beach again. Here’s why I go to the beach because I love my wife and I want to be around her. The apostle Paul said that he had learned to be content in the bad times and well as the good times. In the poor times and the times of prosperity. It’s a learning process. It’s being unselfish; it's giving to the ones you love.
Philippians 4:11 (KJV) Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content.
All you can take with you is that which you've given away.
Proverbs 4:7 (KJV) Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.