You can’t always control the wind, but you can control your sails.
That is what you want isn’t it? You don’t want to get on a jet and hear the pilot say “I’m glad you chose to fly with us today. Don't be alarmed when we reach 3000 we will do a full loop.” “Last time I tried this stunt I almost lost control of the aircraft but I’m not expecting that to happen today.” Enjoy your flight. What is control? Webster says “Power; authority;that which restrains.To check; to restrain; to govern. To have under command.”
Stop! What can you honestly say that you have control of? Better yet, what do we let control us? You will never have a life of Joy as long as we keep Destructive feelings bottled up. Do we want to or even enjoy hanging on to our last hurts??
Ephesians 4:31 (KJV) Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:
Let? What does Webster say about that? “To permit; to allow; to suffer; to give leave or power by a positive act, or negatively” the Apostle Paul says Let “permit; to allow” all bitterness Don’t hang on to any bitterness. Don’t! Then Paul goes on and tells us don’t hold on to “wrath, and anger” get rid of those feelings of getting even. What? There’s more? I’m afraid so, get rid of arguing “clamour,” and “evil speaking,” gossiping. Paul, you are taking all the fun out of my conversation. Put all this away, take control or allow with all “malice” your desire for physical injury. I didn’t say we were doing physical injuries, I said we had a desire to do so. Have you ever said something of this nature “I would love to smash their face into the door.” That is a desire. Now remember that we never take off without putting on. Paul tells us that in Ephesians 4:32 (KJV) And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
Change our outward expression and “be ye kind one to another” this will change our inward expression “tenderhearted” Oh now I’m becoming weak. Do what “forgiving one another.” Do you know what this person has done unto me? No I don’t and I’m sure it wasn’t pleasant. Here is where we are to stop and reflex. What if our Lord Jesus had that kind of attitude? Christ forgave us for all our wrongful actions, deeds and thoughts. Paul says, think about that and forgive others “even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.” Now that is having real control you are watching your mouth, guarding your tongue and are in charge of your conversations. Good Job! He who controls his anger is better than the mighty.
Proverbs 16:32 (KJV) He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city.