It was many years ago now but the
lesson I learned that day hopefully will never leave my mind. I was working
with a trim carpenter running trim in some very costly homes. We were working
on a house as usual when we were asked to get all our tools and go to another
house. It had been sold and they needed to get the trim work finished. We began
working and worked hard to please everyone involved. We worked long hours, as we got closer to being
through everyone was pulled off that job but me. I worked hard to get
everything finished. One more thing was to be done; it was after lunch as I
began this task which would take the rest of the day and then some. I raced to
get it finished and as I was finishing up my boss came to check it all out. He
spent his time looking around and then he spoke up and told me this “I would
like for you to stop for a minute and look at what you have done.” He then said “you have turned that piece of
wood upside down.” I couldn’t believe what I was hearing he was not saying
thanks for working late and getting this job finished for me, I wasn’t hearing,
it all looks good we are pleased with your workmanship. No, all I was hearing
was some negative talk. I learned that day that complaining comes quicker than
compliments. Too many times we don’t hesitate to point out what’ s wrong, but
completely neglect to point out what’s right. Eager to find fault, but hesitant
to praise, we express our grief and regrets, but overlook our blessings. On that
day I remembered how I felt and I made a decision. That decision was that I had
within myself the power to tear down or built up, destroy or improve,
appreciate a job well done or act as if I never noticed. I want to be the one
who not only notices a job well done but give praise where it is due. Remember that
in the book of Matthew we read about three servants that were given talents or
money. Only two of those servants heard the words “well done” one was called
wicked and a lazy servant. We may not have all been given money, but we all
have been given the ability to do something that will bring good results in
others as well as ourselves. What words had you rather hear?
Matthew
25:21 His lord said unto him, Well
done, thou good and faithful servant: thou
hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things:
enter thou into the joy of thy lord. Or
Matthew 25:26 His lord answered and
said unto him, Thou wicked and slothful servant, How
will you be remembered?
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