Proverbs 26:23 Burning lips and a wicked heart are like a potsherd covered
with silver dross.
Potsherd=A
piece or fragment of a broken pot
Like a
clay pot covered with silver, looks are deceiving. It looks as if it's
valuable. Can't always tell by looks or even feelings one must watch for the
actions produced. In this case we see not only by burning lips but also a
wicked heart as the scraping begins for the intention was not to build up but
to burn down. When I use my words are they to build up or is my intention to
burn down? Goes to the intent of my heart, what is my hearts intent? I must
remember and be careful for hurt people want to hurt people. When someone has
disappointed me I must be careful when I speak with them that I don't allow my
disappointment to strike back as to hurt them the way I was hurt. It can be
done without knowing or even the intent to do so. Therefore we should pay close
attention to how and what we’re saying. If my heart is holding on to a feeling
of disappointment then I will burn down. I must make sure the disappointment is
gone from my heart or disaster will happen. Not long ago I thought my hearts
intent was to go by and build someone up. Yes, I was disappointed in them but
thinking I would go by and give a word of encouragement. Jeremiah was right
when he said this;
Jeremiah 17:9 The heart is
deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? Deceitful, is that what Jeremiah said our heart was? Deceitful means to mislead. So here I go, my intentions were to encourage
but my heart was misleading me and before long I was allowing my disappointed
heart to hurt back. The silver had fallen off and the scraping had begun. I
never intended for that to happen but it did and three days later the Lord
deals with my heart about it. I have one or two things to do at this point, ignore the Lord or obey. I chose to obey. I
returned and apologize for my wrong actions and didn’t try to justify what I had
done. You see I had done wrong and it wasn’t anyone else fault but mine. I know
it’s always easier to blame someone else for your wrong actions but it was out
of the abundance of my heart that those words came, not someone else. I didn’t want too, I didn’t like
it at all but the Lord blessed in a way I never expected Him to. The one I went
by to see said I didn’t owe him an apology he needed to hear what I said. I still told him that I was sorry for my actions
that I was out of line. His last words
were as he looked me
in the eyes he said that
he loved me and hugged my neck. The lesson I learned, never try to figure out what God is really doing
when He sends you somewhere. How can we know the mind of God! We can’t and
when we think we do we‘re miles off.