If you were asked the question would you rather be forgiven
or would you rather our wrongs were just forgotten? On the surface forgotten
sound really good doesn’t it? There are many that can’t and want forget the
wrongs done to them; let me just stop here and say we have all been done wrong.
Someone has abused you in some way or another, said wrong things about you and
even tried to destroy your character and you can’t forget the hurt that it has
caused you and your family. Get even is what you may really want to do. A few
years back there was a man whose wife had had an affair with another man. He
was upset at them both I spend over an hour or so talking with him about
containing his anger. I don’t know how many times I used the word forgive in
our conversation but when all was said and done he told me this. The man that
has chosen to have this affair with my wife has destroyed our home but tonight
he can be very thankful to you. I said in what way could he be thankful to me I
don’t even know who he is. Then he told me this story; I was waiting until
later tonight for if you were to walk over to where my truck is parked and you
were to look in the back you would find
5 gallons of gasoline which I was going to burn down his house with. What
does Webster have to say about these two words?
Forget- To lose the remembrance
of; to let go from the memory.
Forgive-
To pardon;
to remit, as an offense or debt; to overlook an offense, and treat the offender
as not guilty. The original and proper phrase is to forgive the offense, to send
it away, to reject it, that is, not to impute it, [put it to] the offender. But
by an easy transition, we also use the phrase, to forgive the person offending.
My mother lives
with my wife and I and she has Alzheimer’s and she has forgotten a lot that has
went on in her life, she just can’t remember anything about parts of her life.
It’s awful not to be able to remember. One day she walked into the room with a
picture in her hand and asked if this was a picture of my brother, as I looked
at the picture is was not my brother but my dad her husband of 38 years; it’s
awful not to remember. You and I may one day have the same problem but to be
honesty I had much rather forgive than to forget. That is what God Does He
doesn’t forget He forgives.
Psalms 103:12 As far as the east is
from the west, so far hath he removed our transgressions from us.
Hebrews 8: 12 For I will be merciful to
their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.
Hebrews 10:17 And their sins and
iniquities will I remember no more.
Remember to
forgive is to treat and offender as not guilty if we were able to forget then
we would not remember anything about it at all. But for you and I to forgive
take our will power. God who can never forget says that He chooses not to
remember our sins; He could if He wanted to but He say I chose not to remember
their sins and iniquities no more. Aren’t you glad you are in the family for
God? You know that is exactly what our heavenly Father wants you and I to do.
Luke 11:4 And forgive us our
sins; for we also forgive
every one that is indebted to us. And lead us not into temptation; but deliver
us from evil. While we lay awake
at night not forgiving that person or persons. As we hold on to all that
bitterness we have allowed, as it builds up against them they are at home fast
asleep. Instead of getting revenge and staying bitter why not just forgive and
have peace for that is what God did for each one of us; He “FORGAVE.” To forgive the person offending.